Two days ago I had one of
the scariest moments yet as a parent. My son and I were out enjoying the February
sunshine. I was walking down the sidewalk while Asher rode his bike right next
to me. I pulled out my phone to make a quick call to my sister and that is when
things took a turn for the worse. Asher, while doing well as a beginning rider,
started to pick up speed on our little hill. I didn’t realize he couldn’t stop
until he was too far out of my grasp. Forgetting that I was leaving a message
on my sister’s voice-mail I began sprinting down the hill after my terrified
son. His heartbreaking cries for his dad still ring in my ear and I could do
nothing but watch as he hopped the curb and had his first big wipe-out on his
bike. Miraculously there were no large injuries, just a little scratch on his
knee and forehead. I think both of us were more scared than anything else. I
just held him there in the street as his cries faded and soon he looked at me
and said “That was freaky dad!” I could do nothing else but laugh and then we
were both smiling and giggling.
While this particular
situation ended with laughter there are plenty of others that will come ending
with questions, frustrations and pains. Sometimes there will be answers and
other times all I will be able to do is sit with Asher and reassure him he is
loved even though he is feeling a pain he struggles to communicate. I’m only
guessing here, but I think Annsimone Mickelberry has walked this road and come
away with wisdom to be shared.
I met up with Annsimone,
her two children and her sister’s family to do a shoot at the Clackamas Town
Center a couple weeks back. The second I met her I was intrigued. As you can
see from the following pictures, she has a full sleeve tattoo down her left
arm, a ring through her bottom lip and some purple worked into her bangs. Our
world easily dismisses people on the basis of appearance. As a result I used to
easily dismiss people based on their appearance, but that really said more
about me than those I was judging. In recent years I’ve learned that outward
appearance is merely the cover of an amazing book wrapped up in each
individual. I love listening to people’s
stories and Annsimone wears her story on her sleeve (literally). It turns out
that she is writing a children’s book that focuses on walking through the loss
of a loved one. The early stages of the writing process are quite intimidating.
You have to open yourself up to some heavy criticism each time you submit your
work. And each rejection can seem as though they are rejecting you. After
sitting and talking with Annsimone and her family I am certain I only got to
see a glimpse of what makes her who she is. I do know that she will be able to
weather the storm as she continues to submit her work and chase her dream. I
know this because as I looked into the eyes of her kids, talked with them,
played with them, and photographed them I saw two kids that were truly happy.
Happy children are a product of love and security both of which have been given
to Harley and Gunner. Godspeed Annsimone as you chase your dream and thank you
for giving me a glimpse of the story that is your life!
